Our time in Chile has come to an end!
In a couple of months we would have celebrated our first anniversary and I can’t believe time has gone passed so quickly. It feels like we only left Australia a few months ago. So much has happened, so many up and downs, we were so busy with our adventure that time had no meaning in our lives.
We met such a variety of people, we know we will always remember. We have learnt so much about the Chilean lifestyle, their customs, their food and their culture. It is a completely different culture to ours, it wouldn’t be exaggerated to say they are worlds apart. I have to admit we struggled to understand and to accept their ways. And that’s exactly why I believe this was the best decision we could have ever made; to move to a completely foreign country!
What I can take home is, what it really means to treat people with respect and to be open-minded. Witnessing so many incidents has tested my patience to its absolute limits and in return I believe I am in the process of being less judgmental and more accepting of others. People I have met, worry every day to prove their social status by making sure to direct people where they socially ¨belong¨. People are obsessed about status, about another’s person last name, if they are from the country or the city, what degree they have, how much they earn, how intelligent they are or what sexual orientation they might have. It is so easy to fall into such insecure mind-set, where in fact the focus should be to care and treat people in a respectful manner. The farmer once said to me ¨you cannot demand respect but only earn it!¨; I can only hope, that I can take this experience and benefit from it by improving myself in being a better “me”.
Talking about patience, even though we are leaving, we are still being tried. I see it as our “Chilean farewell present”, one very last time we have to put all our energies into place and fight. Preparing our family to leave this country has become a massive challenge. Every possible complication you can imagine has occurred from the moment we decided to move back home.
My mum told me my Colombian grandfather always used to say “tenga cuidado con el paquete chileno”: translated, be careful of the Chilean present – beautifully wrapped with the most extravagant paper and ribbons, but once you opened it, you realize it is just an empty old box. I think in English there is a similar saying “a wolf in sheep’s clothing”. And we definitely now realised how this saying came to existence. We didn’t get scammed but we have a fair idea how things can become out of hand and us being culturally brought up differently, having a “rebellious mind” of questioning decisions is a very unusual trait to have.
But you know what they say, everything bad makes you stronger. And that is definitely true. We are very thankful for this life changing opportunity in Chile and we will always look back with a big grin on our faces.
It’s time to move on to “appreciate” our better future. The farmer now has to hang up his working boots and join the city lifestyle. He landed a great opportunity back home in Sydney and he can’t wait to rip in! No need to mention, I am excited!
See you all very soon!
Mrs KRP xxo
P.S And yes, it is not a myth! There are Pumas in Chile. Ask the farmer, he is the one who has all the stories 😉